THE IDEAL LIFE

 So all of us remember the spine-chilling February of 2020 right? All of us remember the Delhi riots and the endless bloodshed right? But the question do you remember the spark that ignited such horrendous cycle of events? Well if you don't, I'll tell you. It all began on 10th January 2020 when the CAA bill came into force. That was the time which marked the beginning of a chronological pattern of crimes which are better to be forgot than remembered. It totally revolutionized the Indian demography forever. And coincidentally , that was the time when India was ruled by a leader who was earlier involved, or thought to be involved in the Gujarat riots in 2002. Narendra Modi represented India intercontinentally in 2019. When this act came into force and after 1000s of people lost their possessions, the BJP was highly criticized by the majority. Not only the opposition but people from every strata of society passed their judgements on the NDA government.  But the recent course of a...

 So this blog is dedicated to all the fathers out there. It is dedicated to all those silent heroes who do everything possible just to make us happy. To those strong humans who undergo tremendous pressure and stress but never complain. We always appreciate our mothers for everything they do but according to me it is the fathers whose efforts go a bit unnoticed. It is so because we think that it is their duty to put food on our table; but it is never so. You know we can easily thank our mothers for everything they do but when it comes to thank our fathers, all the words fail. Even the longest words seem to be too small in comparison to the sacrifices our fathers make. Why do we need a Father's Day to celebrate the real heroes of our family? I believe that just like a mother, fathers are also very selfless. I mean they are only one who work day and night only for us. We always put up social media stories for/with our mothers but why don't we do the same for our fathers? I'll ...

"Wear pink. It's a girly color". "Learn how to cook and manage your home or else you won't find a groom". "You need to clothes which cover you completely. That's what the society approves".  You must be thinking what kind of a starting to a blog is this. After all blogs are meant to be started on a enthusiastic and good note right. Well, you all haven't realised then that is the way a girl's life in our country starts and this is the same way it ends. From proving themselves and begging their families to accept them in the young age to begging their children to  keep them in their house in the old age - there isn't much difference in the life of a female when she turns into a woman from a girl. Only the responsibilities increase and nothing else. Women spend their entire life willingly or unwillingly to prove themselves to the society and yet they aren't rewarded. Rather they are tied together with the shackles of stereotypes. A...

So finally the one month where everyone tries to become the figure of equality among their friends or their "social circle" has arrived. Its the PRIDE month. I am happy that we have such a month once in an year when those belonging to the LGBTQ+ community get recognized or get equal rights etc.. And the most interesting fact- The entire society steps up for these people. Its feels as if I have seen a thousand Instagram stories on this issue, even though it's just the second day of the month and I am actually very happy about them. But the question is when will we practice what we preach? Like you can tell me I am wrong only if you haven't seen transgender people on the traffic lights, only if you haven't seen the society criticizing such people, only if you haven't seen the family members of these people give up on them and only if you haven't even jokingly given various names to such people. I mean we live in the 21st century and even an infant now has an...

 So I was just having a look at the recent Instagram trends. There was this one trend where the idea of men buying pads was promoted. That was the moment when an thought struck me. Are the ideas we are promoting on social media really being preached by us in the real life? The answer was obviously NO. Because if it was being preached then we wont need such trends, we wouldn't be criticizing women when they were on their periods. Why do we always stop women from wearing light colored clothes when they are on their periods? Why does a medical store give them pads wrapped in a black paper/polythene? I will be very clear this only promotes taboo and nothing else. I mean this is something no human can do anything about. It is quite natural that every month such days would come when women wont be same: like they will have their mood swings, they will be suffering from body ache and stuff. If you want to take another look see it this way, you are forced to take pains and cramps from the a...

First of all before I begin with this blog I would like to clear one thing- I am NOT a terrorist and I love my country as much as  those soldiers on the border do. I am not a Pakistani or an Anti-Indian. It is just that I have the guts to publicly say things which the most educated people are afraid of saying. What is COVID-19 teaching us? Obviously valuing our families and stuff but one more thing which most of us are ignoring. CHOOSE YOUR LEADERS WISELY. Now I realise what has happened in the past 7 years. Our country has ranked up but only in communal violence,hatred and intolerance of the majority towards the minority.  I am not saying that CONGRESS is better than BJP. Had it been Congress' government right now, I would be criticizing them too right now. But it's PM Modi who is answerable to us. When we travel in planes the first thing we hear is "Please help yourself first with the oxygen masks and then someone else". In the light of this statement I would like t...

 So what's life right now? Sitting at your home, working from home, getting tensed each day because majority has no source of income right now, worrying about the increasing death rate right? Well if you understand life like this then I believe your perception towards it is a bit wrong. We as humans always crib for materialistic happiness. We don't even realize that we are missing to do something which everyone should do, i.e. LIVE LIFE. Money is important and worrying in the lack of it is also natural but always wishing for more money is a 'trait of the devil'. We all have wonderful retirement plans right? All of us believe that someday we will reach a point in our life when will be completely satisfied and then will be the time when we begin to live. But the question is how do we know that we will live that long? I mean COVID-19 is the best example. People who had surplus money are also dying and the people who were also not -so financially strong are in the same situ...