THE IDEAL LIFE

So it's been 20 days since we entered 2022. A great year full of all sorts of emotions left behind and hopefully a better year ahead. We all must have made some resolutions either to ourselves or to our close ones right? Some might be trying to fulfill those promises, others might have forgotten it.  Let's talk about the ones which we made to ourselves. So all of us hope and try our best each day to be a better person. We try to level up and conquer the previous version of us. Now in all this process, one goes through a lot of realizations in every aspect. Constant support from family and friends is needed in these times. We all become a lot more saturated and our breakdowns become a lot more common. You might feel like you are not able to make others understand what's going on in your mind. A lot of things accumulate in your mind. And the only one who could help you is you. Remember excess of everything and none of anything is the two worst possible scenarios ever, and you...

 So this blog is gonna be a bit analytical, analyzing the various influences on the current generation, or so to say the Gen Z. This very dynamic globe has already left its impact on the earlier generations, in one way or the other. It made some people believe in themselves while the others were on the other side of the coin. And now it is our generation on the radar of this unstoppable cycle of change. Surely, it 2ont be wrong to call our generation a mob of  'most confused newbies' in this big blue world. On one day we want to be independent in every form possible and on the other days we find our happiness in other people/things/animals etc. . On one hand this generation boasts about the way they value their lives and on the end the suicide rates among them is constantly rising. According to a study conducted by the NDTV in the year 2018, 3 out of every 10 students are of the mindset or on the verge to end their lives over some petty subjects like peer pressure. Talking abo...

 So all of us remember the spine-chilling February of 2020 right? All of us remember the Delhi riots and the endless bloodshed right? But the question do you remember the spark that ignited such horrendous cycle of events? Well if you don't, I'll tell you. It all began on 10th January 2020 when the CAA bill came into force. That was the time which marked the beginning of a chronological pattern of crimes which are better to be forgot than remembered. It totally revolutionized the Indian demography forever. And coincidentally , that was the time when India was ruled by a leader who was earlier involved, or thought to be involved in the Gujarat riots in 2002. Narendra Modi represented India intercontinentally in 2019. When this act came into force and after 1000s of people lost their possessions, the BJP was highly criticized by the majority. Not only the opposition but people from every strata of society passed their judgements on the NDA government.  But the recent course of a...

 So this blog is dedicated to all the fathers out there. It is dedicated to all those silent heroes who do everything possible just to make us happy. To those strong humans who undergo tremendous pressure and stress but never complain. We always appreciate our mothers for everything they do but according to me it is the fathers whose efforts go a bit unnoticed. It is so because we think that it is their duty to put food on our table; but it is never so. You know we can easily thank our mothers for everything they do but when it comes to thank our fathers, all the words fail. Even the longest words seem to be too small in comparison to the sacrifices our fathers make. Why do we need a Father's Day to celebrate the real heroes of our family? I believe that just like a mother, fathers are also very selfless. I mean they are only one who work day and night only for us. We always put up social media stories for/with our mothers but why don't we do the same for our fathers? I'll ...

"Wear pink. It's a girly color". "Learn how to cook and manage your home or else you won't find a groom". "You need to clothes which cover you completely. That's what the society approves".  You must be thinking what kind of a starting to a blog is this. After all blogs are meant to be started on a enthusiastic and good note right. Well, you all haven't realised then that is the way a girl's life in our country starts and this is the same way it ends. From proving themselves and begging their families to accept them in the young age to begging their children to  keep them in their house in the old age - there isn't much difference in the life of a female when she turns into a woman from a girl. Only the responsibilities increase and nothing else. Women spend their entire life willingly or unwillingly to prove themselves to the society and yet they aren't rewarded. Rather they are tied together with the shackles of stereotypes. A...

So finally the one month where everyone tries to become the figure of equality among their friends or their "social circle" has arrived. Its the PRIDE month. I am happy that we have such a month once in an year when those belonging to the LGBTQ+ community get recognized or get equal rights etc.. And the most interesting fact- The entire society steps up for these people. Its feels as if I have seen a thousand Instagram stories on this issue, even though it's just the second day of the month and I am actually very happy about them. But the question is when will we practice what we preach? Like you can tell me I am wrong only if you haven't seen transgender people on the traffic lights, only if you haven't seen the society criticizing such people, only if you haven't seen the family members of these people give up on them and only if you haven't even jokingly given various names to such people. I mean we live in the 21st century and even an infant now has an...